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Ask Marwa: How to build your inner sense of security?

Hello Marwa

I need you to help me with an issue; it is not a man and women thing. My problem is that I never felt that I am attached to anything or anyone. I think that because we as a family changed our location many times and in many countries, and I have changed many schools and many friends as well. I feel that my life is divided into fragments. I fear losing the people I love … the question is how to build my inner sense of security. I am 23, or is it too late? I just want to feel normal.
O

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Dear O

Let me start by telling you that the word "normal" does not exist in real life … we are all unique in our different ways … how would you define a normal person? How would you define a normal life? There is no such thing … we are brought into this world to take different paths … to become different people … to have different experiences … normal = stereotype … and stereotypes are dull caricatures.

Attachment? Some people crave it while others hate it … why would you want to be attached to anything or to anyone … maybe this is your gift … maybe this is what makes you special … you are like a free spirit … nothing could tie you down.

Security comes from within not from getting attached to people or things … your number one loyalty is towards yourself … you are the same person wherever you go and you have to mind your best interest. Fear of loss is another story … people lose what they cannot control … but if you understand that you can only control yourself then you will understand that you can never lose who you are … imagine your life as a circle and you are the center … no matter what happens you will always be the center that keeps the circle in shape.

You have had the blessing of being exposed to different people, places, and cultures … you have the brains to decipher what to accept and what to reject. The fragments in your life are like the pieces of a complete puzzle … it is much better than being narrow minded and shallow

You just need to know what to do with all of that … those things are what make you a different person … why do you want to give them away and become and ordinary dependent person who is imprisoned in her surroundings? The age of 21 – 28 is the phase where a person gets to establish themselves … you find out what you want to do with your life … your passion … your voice … in other words … why were you created … you were given a package of qualities … pros and cons … how will you make use of them to develop, grow, and help others? Do not waste time trying to become like others … invest in the qualities that you have and find a way to make the best out of them. People like you have great potential because they do not belong in a certain home, country, job, or company … they do not belong with a certain person … I suggest you find a cause … and get use your freedom to support it … just think of why were you created like that and how can you make use of it?

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مروة رخا: موجهة مونتيسوري معتمدة دولياً من الميلاد حتى 12 عام. Marwa Rakha: Internationally certified Montessori educator from birth to 12 years.

بدأت “مروة رخا” رحلتها مع “نهج وفلسفة المونتيسوري” في نهاية عام 2011 بقراءة كتب “د. ماريا مونتيسوري” عن الطفل والبيئة الغنية التي يحتاجها لينمو ويزدهر. تلت القراءة الحرة دراسة متعمقة للفلسفة والمنهج مع مركز أمريكا الشمالية للمونتيسوري

“North American Montessori Center”