Virginity …. again and again!

Date posted: May 2, 2010


 
 
 
I wrote about the issue of virginity so many many many times in English and in Arabic and in Arabic again and on the radio and I published this book in Arabic still people are  not getting it right.
 
This is a girl who is engaged – almost married – maktoob ketabha and here is her question 
 
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hey its me again

the silly girl who tried killing her self for a jerk

as for now el7amdullah i got rid of that jerk it toke me time to forget and much more time to find mr right

now i got engaged (etktab ktaby) to someone whom i think he is ana angle he love me so much and i love every single detail conerning him

and i lived with him the best days ever

he thinks am so shy and that i never had a sexual relation before him

am not vigin i cant tll him becase he is so relgious he will leave me or tell my family i cant do it i will lose him

please advice me what to do my wedding s after a month and time is counting down and i dont know what to do

i cant live without him and i cant ever tell him he would never accept it
thanks so much

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Habibty

I am totally and completely against lies …. Why did you wait for so long to think about this day? Why did you wait until you were almost married?

I have no solution for you

From the beginning a girl knows what she will do

From the beginning she decides if she will tell him or not

and If from the beginning she decided not to tell him

then from the beginning she should know what she will do about it

I really do not have any advice for you

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