Recorded Advice: He does not want to work
Date posted: April 21, 2009
i have a problem and really don't know how to deal with it.i knew a guy 5 years ago..he was so nice to me, after 3 years we got engaged. and we are engaged now from 2 years.
the problem is that he left his job and he spend one year and a half looking 4 a job . it has been a long time no work..so he start fighting with me all the time , nervous all the time ..the problem is that he's 30 years old, and he's very passif..he's not even looking 4 a job ..and i am very active, working all the day..i won't lie to you , i really do love him..
but can't stand more.i wanna change his personality but how?..even when we fight he never say sorry..all people around say that i 've to leave him but i can't..dunno even why..may b coz i am 30 years old and may b cz i really love him..also, he started to insult me when we fight which is unacceptable 4 me..we can't respect eachothers like before..and our mariage is postponed till he find a job..also, he's very slow and i am very active ..
do u think we can match this way..and how can i let him more ambitious and active..ana begad te3ebt men el kasal eli howa fih we mesh 3arfa ezay howa mesta7mel sana we nos khateb we mesh beyeshtaghal..we ahlo homa eli beyesterfo 3alih…
look, before he was very respectable with me and very nice..but now i don't know wht happened..yemken 3alashan awel mara shatam fiha ana 3aditha…we a3mel eh now 3alashan ne7terem ba3d like before…
bgd ana 3ala akhry, and very lost f3lan..plz help me
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