Recorded Advice: Sexual Chemistry

Date posted: April 24, 2009

Dear marwa,
I really have a strange problem.

I am 20, i have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 months. we are so compatible with eachother. i am completely attracted to the way he looks.. before any sexual contact i always had dreams about just touching his hands and when it happened i felt warmth running through my whole body, when we first exchanged cheeck kisses which was 2 weeks ago i had the same feelings too.

Last week he kissed me (on the lips) all of a sudden and i felt neutral :/

i felt something soft moving over my lips thats all but there was no emotions at all. I think he felt the same way too. I told him in an indirect way and i explained that it might be because it was the wrong time and place. I'm not sure if that was the real reason. i am just astonished and scared that we might not be having sexual chemistry. I'm scared that we should have been the friends that shouldnt have ever become lovers :S i am scared to go through this experience again as if sparks didnt come out next time i will get really worried about our relationship :S what i should do?

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