Recorded Advice: He is in love with me BUT he has a girlfriend

Date posted: May 7, 2009

hi marwa , i m 22 years old , my problem began when i knew a person who had a girlfriend  , we were colleagues in a course then we quickly became close close friends , we had a lot of things in common , we were the same in doing a lot of things ,we used to talk 4 or 5 hs & didnt notice that we spent all this time talking, of course i noticed that he is interested in me & attracted to me , but i said to myself" noway coz he has a girlfriend & he can't be in love with me ".(he didnt let me feel that he has a girlfriend ).

everyday he was proving to me that he loves me by his words , his looks & his actions then suddenly oneday after 2 months, he said that he loves me a lot but he cant leave his girlfriend bcoz she is waiting for him 2 years , he can't leave her bcoz of what she has done to him , how she is so in love with him, if he leaves her this will be unfair  & he decided not to talk anymore ..i respect that & i was away from him ,then after 3 days we began to talk & get in touch again & we were closer than before (i know that i m wrong this time ) , after 2 weeks he began to change with me in his way of talking & his caring & he said it's better to be friends .

i refused & told him that we cant be friends bcoz we were so close than friends & we cant talk anymore (this time i took the decision bcoz i thought that i ll lose my dignity )
after a month he asked me again to be friends & he misses me a lot & he didnt wanna lose me  ,of course i am truly touched but i told him that wont happen bcoz i used to be treated in a very special way & this wont be if we become just friends.

i also told him that becoz if we get again in touch we ll get close again & the one will be hurt again me , his life is going good & i m the one who suffers & cant get over him, but i dont know if what i ve done is right or wrong , i know that i was wrong when i loved a person who has a girl friend and i m not mean i didnt want this girl to be hurt neither me .
tell me what i has done is right or wrong . 

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