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Recorded Advice: He is in love with me BUT he has a girlfriend

hi marwa , i m 22 years old , my problem began when i knew a person who had a girlfriend  , we were colleagues in a course then we quickly became close close friends , we had a lot of things in common , we were the same in doing a lot of things ,we used to talk 4 or 5 hs & didnt notice that we spent all this time talking, of course i noticed that he is interested in me & attracted to me , but i said to myself” noway coz he has a girlfriend & he can’t be in love with me “.(he didnt let me feel that he has a girlfriend ).

everyday he was proving to me that he loves me by his words , his looks & his actions then suddenly oneday after 2 months, he said that he loves me a lot but he cant leave his girlfriend bcoz she is waiting for him 2 years , he can’t leave her bcoz of what she has done to him , how she is so in love with him, if he leaves her this will be unfair  & he decided not to talk anymore ..i respect that & i was away from him ,then after 3 days we began to talk & get in touch again & we were closer than before (i know that i m wrong this time ) , after 2 weeks he began to change with me in his way of talking & his caring & he said it’s better to be friends .

i refused & told him that we cant be friends bcoz we were so close than friends & we cant talk anymore (this time i took the decision bcoz i thought that i ll lose my dignity )
after a month he asked me again to be friends & he misses me a lot & he didnt wanna lose me  ,of course i am truly touched but i told him that wont happen bcoz i used to be treated in a very special way & this wont be if we become just friends.

i also told him that becoz if we get again in touch we ll get close again & the one will be hurt again me , his life is going good & i m the one who suffers & cant get over him, but i dont know if what i ve done is right or wrong , i know that i was wrong when i loved a person who has a girl friend and i m not mean i didnt want this girl to be hurt neither me .
tell me what i has done is right or wrong .



من هي مروة رخا؟
مروة رخا: موجهة مونتيسوري معتمدة دولياً من الميلاد حتى 12 عام. Marwa Rakha: Internationally certified Montessori educator from birth to 12 years.

بدأت “مروة رخا” رحلتها مع “نهج وفلسفة المونتيسوري” في نهاية عام 2011 بقراءة كتب “د. ماريا مونتيسوري” عن الطفل والبيئة الغنية التي يحتاجها لينمو ويزدهر. تلت القراءة الحرة دراسة متعمقة للفلسفة والمنهج مع مركز أمريكا الشمالية للمونتيسوري

“North American Montessori Center”